As soon as a change is definite, it’s important to start preparing. Clear, age-appropriate communication is key. For younger children, keep explanations simple but honest. For older children, allow room for questions and emotions.
Families and nannies should collaborate on what will be said and when. Surprising children with abrupt goodbyes can make the transition harder and more confusing for them.
Tip: Avoid framing the departure as anyone’s “fault.” Instead, explain that change is a natural part of life and relationships.
Goodbyes often bring a mix of sadness, confusion, and even anger. Acknowledge and validate these feelings. Encourage children to express themselves — through conversation, drawing, or play.
At Twinkle Toes Nanny Agency, we often recommend creating a special memory book or craft project together as a positive way to honor the time shared and to ease the emotional transition.
A planned farewell can provide emotional closure for both children and caregivers. This could be a small goodbye party, a dinner, or a special outing. Rituals help mark endings in a healthy way, allowing children to express gratitude and begin to move forward.
Idea: Encourage children to write letters or draw pictures for their nanny or family, sharing favorite memories and good wishes for the future.
Children take emotional cues from the adults around them. When families and nannies speak positively about the next steps — whether it’s a new caregiver joining the family or a nanny starting an exciting new job — children are more likely to feel secure and optimistic too.
If you’re a family needing a new nanny, or a nanny looking for your next opportunity, Twinkle Toes Nanny Agency is here to help make the next chapter just as special as the last.
Transitions don’t happen overnight. Even after a thoughtful goodbye, children may take time to fully adjust to a new caregiver or routine. Be patient, and keep communication open. Reassure children that it’s okay to miss someone and still be excited about what’s ahead.
At Twinkle Toes Nanny Agency, we believe that every relationship — and every goodbye — deserves to be treated with care and respect. Whether you’re moving forward as a family or as a nanny, we’re here to guide you every step of the way, creating smooth transitions and happy new beginnings.